If you’re someone who freezes up when small talk suddenly becomes necessary—especially in English, which isn’t your first language—this Small Talk series is just for you. Each post will give you fresh, practical ideas for what to say in different everyday situations. You’ll learn natural expressions to help keep the conversation flowing and build confidence in your speaking skills.

In this post, we’ll look at a casual exchange between two moms who meet at a park while watching their kids play. They don’t know each other at first, but end up sharing a bench—and a light conversation. It’s the kind of moment that can feel awkward if you’re not sure how to start or respond, but with the help of this example, you’ll be better prepared when it’s your turn to join in. So read on—this will be fun, useful, and totally doable.